-communicate with wing
One of the most important things to do is to communicate with your wing. You need to be on the same page about the bounce, the plan, and your target. If one guy is more advanced / accomplished at bouncing, he can take care of things. If you are the other guy in this situation, just go along with it and don’t ask too many logistical questions in front of the girls that might mess it up. Pick your girl, or if there are more you may need to hold multiple chicks. Sometimes it can be even easier this way if you get them working for you.
-establish the “ally”
Sense out which of the girls is more down; she will be the ally. Just remember that she will be the most important member of the whole operation. However, she can be “flipped” by the other, less down friend if the friend spooks. Always escalate on the ally first (might take some communication, but the two of you should determine which girl is more down and then the corresponding guy makes the first moves. For example, the first kiss should be one dude and the ally, or the two girls together, not the other dude and the friend if possible. When the friend sees the ally kiss, it makes her open up a little more to be kissed herself.). Never pressure the other, less-down girl too much at first (unless they’re both down, which happens sometimes as well, then you’re green light and can probably skip this post and just insert)
Josh and Damon meet Aya and Emi on the street one evening in Shinjuku. They chat for a bit, during which they fluctuate from group conversation to paired off conversations. Damon lives in the area and Josh is visiting from Kansai. They decide to bounce the girls to a conbini to get some Franzia and apples and make some sangria. On the way to Damon’s, they walk in pairs with their respective girls, chat and have fun. Back at Damon’s place, Emi is completely into Damon, playfully slapping him and listening intently to him. Aya seems a little bit tense and nervous, but sees Emi is having fun, and relaxes a bit. Damon gets out the cards and deals them out and explains the rules, and they take turns. As the game progresses, Emi and Aya drink a little more and get a bit more physical with each other as Josh orders the girls to eskimo kiss, and Damon picks up Aya princess-style. Josh knows Damon has to make the move since Emi is clearly the ally in the situation, but he suspects Aya might bolt for the door if they take off their clothes now. Damon isn’t picking this up, so Josh sends a text message to Damon for him to kiss Emi. Damon sees the text and kisses Emi. Aya, seeing her friend kiss says “eeeeeeeh” in surprise, but since Emi and Damon are enjoying the kiss, she quiets down and opens up a bit. Damon chills a bit, everyone drinks a little more, Damon kisses Emi again, and this time Josh kisses Aya too. Aya notices that Emi is enjoying this, and doesn’t want to ruin the fun, so decides to join in and kisses Josh back. Damon strips Emi, and the girls are laughing, but not resisting. Pretty soon everyone’s having sex.
In this example, Emi is the “ally” and the guys use her for leverage to gradually sexualize the interaction without spooking Aya.
-build the frame :police:
The frame battle will essentially be:
The girl’s inhibitions about 1. group sex and 2. her friend thinking she’s a s.lut
vs.
You, your wing, and the ally’s ability to create a fun, non-judgmental, gradual descent through the girl’s inhibitions (which the ally will probably harbor to some degree as well). You accomplish this by steering FAR AWAY from any insinuation that ANYBODY is a s.lut, cheating, or anything similarly negative. On the contrary, it might be helpful at times to express the normality of experimentation while you’re young. “Wow really? In my hometown all the girls kiss each other at least once to try it out!” “WHAAAAT you’ve never had a threesome?”
(People who’ve read my past posts might recognize some “Arbiter of Weird” frame here.).
-ramp up sexuality gradually
This can be done in many ways (from the basic- kiss the damn girl), but some of the most effective at slowly building the sexuality are rules-based games / batsu-games that involve ordering people around, like truth or dare, spin the bottle, strip poker, strip jan ken, or the Ousama game. You have to build this up gradually, starting with easy to comply to things like hugging or dancing with the person, then ramp it up and get to touching kissing, and taking off clothes. The order aspect of it takes the responsibility away from the chicks since under the rules of the game they “have to” do it. Build it up slowly, incorrectly, or if you’re just not hooked into the set enough, they could cut it off at any time. The ally can help you maintain it. Try to direct more risque commands to the ally, if possible.
-go there first
Basic NLP principle, but since the girl feels whatever you feel, you should feel relaxed, fun, and non-judgmental. Sometimes you might get naked first.
-engage everybody, but stick to your chick
Nothing’s worse in a group dynamic than one girl getting none of the love. If the two guys are fawning over the hotter girl and ignore the second girl (or one of the others if there are more), then the ignored girl WILL cause problems and make sure NOBODY gets laid. If one guy is going to be winging the less hot girl, he should make sure she’s having fun. The guy with the hotter chick should take note and appreciate the other guy’s wingmanship.
-divide and conquer
Escalating directly in front of the other couple can be done in certain situations, but at other times if the friends are really shy about it and you sense some hesitance, pulling one of the girls to the bathroom or balcony can make everything run smoothly. If at any point one guy suspects his chick is definitely not going to be down, and the other pair seem to be really hitting it off, the guy can bring the friend out to the conbini to “get drinks” or ice cream or whatever and come back (or the other guy can try to bounce to his spot. Protip: get the girl to bring her purse when you go to the conbini.). After they leave, the other guy should escalate hard and have sex with the remaining girl before the others come back.
-bodily love
Compliment the girls’ bodies. Separately and in front of each other. Being naked makes you feel vulnerable, especially in a situation with lots of people who you’re attracted to. Let them all know their bodies look good, notice specific things you like. The girls will feel non-judged and relax more.
-Have fun!
Stay safe, always wrap up. You can switch after / during banging if you’re in the same room or close by. Afterwards you can just chill with the girls. Just last Saturday I pulled one of these with the Mapmaker, and we just chilled with the chicks from midnight to 5am, just hanging out, drinking, banging, talking, and even cooked some pasta. After you switch, nobody is nobody’s girl, so you can just cuddle or play with the tits of whoever is closest ^^
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