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Don’t Get the Girl: Walk the Path I

walk the path

Recently I've been sensing a lot of outcome-focus in chats and from people in real life. I think it's very important to shift the focus from results and to the path, or progress. I first wrote most of this post back in February 2014, and recently reread it and it

Be Allergic to Negativity

Allergic to Negativity

Walking the path, you will come across TONS of negativity. You'll find it in girls you open, guys around you, and most insidiously, within yourself. It's important as you walk the path to become increasingly aware of negativity, while simultaneously not being affected by it. Negativity washes over you like a wave crashing on

5 Frames for Rock Solid Game

5 Frames for Rock Solid Game

1. The Shepherd This is the most straightforward of frames in this list, and the one you should probably devote the most energy to if you're struggling with leading. You are the shepherd. The women (and everyone else) are your sheep. Disregard common notions of hierarchy, supremacy, or privilege which are